As im textin this.. I've just got to find another wall to pen my thots.

I'm writing this not to pick on you, but i'm just pouring out wat I feel. Cos I do not know whom I should turn to speak of my problems to. How much I've been soo hurt by the things that have happened.

So many things hv happened since we got engaged. But I guess this one thing which happened yesterday was our worst quarrel.

I know both ur parents and u wanted that date so much, but I'm sorry.. I tried, but we can't get tat date. I do not see why you have to blow up in such a way. Starting to blame my parents and all. And obviously, as a daughter I was very hurt by it. Cos I gave ur parents my due respect and I try to love them as if they are of my own.
Have I ever blamed ur parents for anything? I don't think so rite? I know I've never.

I mentioned to you last nite too, that we shld try finding solution instead of blaming on wat has happened. Cos it's like crying over spilled milk.

U vent ur anger on me cos ur dad gotten pissed off bcos we can't get married on that date. Is it fair?

I have mentioned on compromising. The last time my parents compromised to ur mom's wishes. Rmbr when my parents wanted to have my wedding a one-day event but ur mom pleaded with my parents to have a two-day event instead? See.. My parents can compromise to that.

So, why can't your side be a bit flexible and look at it in that way -to compromise on the date. The date is a unique date, thus it's such a popular date and was already been reserved way long time back and we are left with no choice but to find an alternative date.

Aft all, why argue so much on the date cos there are so much more other issues to plan & decide upon. If we can't get the parties to compromise and decide, wat's the point of even planning for this wedding? It leads to heartbreaks and obviously there will always be the injured party.

How u r handling the situation, it's really bad. U start to blame on me for being pressurize, but u are the one pressured by ur dad's anger and vent it on me. It's not easy to be engaged cos it's the first step where u r tested on how to cope with, the stress fm ur parents, the stress fm ur fiancee & the stress fm ur in-laws. I feel u dear.

I love u and I try not to hurt. Tt's y I chose not to talk so much bout it. Cos we've been thru a lot last nite..




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As im textin this.. I've just got to find another wall to pen my thots.

I'm writing this not to pick on you, but i'm just pouring out wat I feel. Cos I do not know whom I should turn to speak of my problems to. How much I've been soo hurt by the things that have happened.

So many things hv happened since we got engaged. But I guess this one thing which happened yesterday was our worst quarrel.

I know both ur parents and u wanted that date so much, but I'm sorry.. I tried, but we can't get tat date. I do not see why you have to blow up in such a way. Starting to blame my parents and all. And obviously, as a daughter I was very hurt by it. Cos I gave ur parents my due respect and I try to love them as if they are of my own.
Have I ever blamed ur parents for anything? I don't think so rite? I know I've never.

I mentioned to you last nite too, that we shld try finding solution instead of blaming on wat has happened. Cos it's like crying over spilled milk.

U vent ur anger on me cos ur dad gotten pissed off bcos we can't get married on that date. Is it fair?

I have mentioned on compromising. The last time my parents compromised to ur mom's wishes. Rmbr when my parents wanted to have my wedding a one-day event but ur mom pleaded with my parents to have a two-day event instead? See.. My parents can compromise to that.

So, why can't your side be a bit flexible and look at it in that way -to compromise on the date. The date is a unique date, thus it's such a popular date and was already been reserved way long time back and we are left with no choice but to find an alternative date.

Aft all, why argue so much on the date cos there are so much more other issues to plan & decide upon. If we can't get the parties to compromise and decide, wat's the point of even planning for this wedding? It leads to heartbreaks and obviously there will always be the injured party.

How u r handling the situation, it's really bad. U start to blame on me for being pressurize, but u are the one pressured by ur dad's anger and vent it on me. It's not easy to be engaged cos it's the first step where u r tested on how to cope with, the stress fm ur parents, the stress fm ur fiancee & the stress fm ur in-laws. I feel u dear.

I love u and I try not to hurt. Tt's y I chose not to talk so much bout it. Cos we've been thru a lot last nite..




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