You say you really know me
You're not afraid to show me, what is in your eyes
something which makes me ponder//
Friday, February 18, 2011 / 7:13 AM
Mom was sharing with me about some stuffs..
Recently last week, my parents' close friend had lost his wife.
Both husband & late wife are my parents' close friends.
They got married about the same period as mom & dad,
however they do not have any children.
The thing which I would like to highlight is..
The husband called my dad just now asking my dad's opinion on finding another wife for himself.
Mom & dad was totally shocked of the decision.
It's not bout finding a replacement.. But, finding a replacement in such a short period.
Whereby the late wife has just passed away in less than a week.
It makes me ponder on certain issues.
Of course the first thing in mind.. Being the stereotypical me..
Guys can easily forget someone, move on with life & find another replacement.
In just a blink.
Then, I gave a thot about my parents' friend's situation whom I call him uncle fendy.
I told mom, it could be due to uncle fendy's situation whereby he does not have any children,
he could be lonely and at the same time, he feels that there isn't anyone to look after him..
Therefore, he needed someone, in this case, a wife to look after him..
Mom somehow did agree with me.
I think through it all over again..
I used to be very independent.. I am still now (hehs..)
But, somehow when I used to say I do not need anyone in life.
When I used to say, I was enjoying my life without any worries.
When I could spend, enjoy & party as and when I like..
Somehow at the end of the day, when I am tired, when I feel like I wanna share my problems - telling how terrible my day has been, or simply have conversations on my dreams, and ambition... There is someone whom I can turn to.
Ok, I admit. That, I used to think.. I do not need anyone else in life.
As long as I have lotsa good friends around & I was contented with what life had to offer.
I was contented with life then, and I am more contented now.
I am blessed with good friends around and with an additional advantage,
of an understanding boyfriend. Much love.
Even my parents can't live without each other. Mom can't sleep when dad was in hospital & vice versa.
To conclude it all, we do need someone to embrace each other's lives. Cheers ;)
This song express it all for my post tonite.
Recently last week, my parents' close friend had lost his wife.
Both husband & late wife are my parents' close friends.
They got married about the same period as mom & dad,
however they do not have any children.
The thing which I would like to highlight is..
The husband called my dad just now asking my dad's opinion on finding another wife for himself.
Mom & dad was totally shocked of the decision.
It's not bout finding a replacement.. But, finding a replacement in such a short period.
Whereby the late wife has just passed away in less than a week.
It makes me ponder on certain issues.
Of course the first thing in mind.. Being the stereotypical me..
Guys can easily forget someone, move on with life & find another replacement.
In just a blink.
Then, I gave a thot about my parents' friend's situation whom I call him uncle fendy.
I told mom, it could be due to uncle fendy's situation whereby he does not have any children,
he could be lonely and at the same time, he feels that there isn't anyone to look after him..
Therefore, he needed someone, in this case, a wife to look after him..
Mom somehow did agree with me.
I think through it all over again..
I used to be very independent.. I am still now (hehs..)
But, somehow when I used to say I do not need anyone in life.
When I used to say, I was enjoying my life without any worries.
When I could spend, enjoy & party as and when I like..
Somehow at the end of the day, when I am tired, when I feel like I wanna share my problems - telling how terrible my day has been, or simply have conversations on my dreams, and ambition... There is someone whom I can turn to.
Ok, I admit. That, I used to think.. I do not need anyone else in life.
As long as I have lotsa good friends around & I was contented with what life had to offer.
I was contented with life then, and I am more contented now.
I am blessed with good friends around and with an additional advantage,
of an understanding boyfriend. Much love.
Even my parents can't live without each other. Mom can't sleep when dad was in hospital & vice versa.
To conclude it all, we do need someone to embrace each other's lives. Cheers ;)
This song express it all for my post tonite.
